It is easy to learn how to be a pick up artist. There are simple steps to follow and if one does this he can surprise himself on how facile it is to pick up any woman that he desires. One does not even have to necessarily believe that he can do this. He just has to follow the steps.
The first thing one does when he wants to find a date is to go where the women are. One such place to go is to a bar. This is the most likely establishment where women who are looking for one night stands will populate. There are undoubtedly several options to choose from in the city that one lives.
When a man enters the bar he does not act like he notices the women there; this makes him a point of interest. Although it may seem counterintuitive a man who wants to have women become preoccupied with him does not openly seek to make this happen. He does it with subtlety by ordering a drink and quietly minding his own business. The women generally react to this type of action by asking herself why this man is not talking to her.
This provokes her to talk to the man who is not beguiled by her lovely appearance. A popular question these women will ask is, Aren\’t you going to buy me a drink? The answer to this question is always, I do not buy women drinks. One may think this answer would put the women off but this is not the case.
Mainly what ends up happening is that the women want to purchase drinks for the men and to keep the interaction going the men agree. It is OK for men to talk to women in earnest from now on. But he is careful not to introduce a topic that will create controversy. For this reason an antagonistic subject such as politics is never mentioned.
The polite and pleasant conversation comforts female companions who can now rest assured that their looks are not being repudiated after all by this new man. At this time the proposition can be made that the two proceed to her home in order to have private moments there. In order to be in charge of when the evening ends the man needs to be in control of when he leaves the situation.
The man drives his car and the woman drives hers to her abode. After consenting to indoor entertainments the man has accomplished what he set out to do for the night. To prevent the belief that she is entitled to anything more than what she just received the man does not hang around for very long. He immediately gets dressed to go home.
The pick up artist has a plan. First he goes to where the women are. Then he calculatingly does not talk to them when he finds them. After they have noticed that he is not impressed with their looks they begin to become obsessed with him and he knows he has a way in. They begin to talk and they both agree to go home to her apartment. Because he does not have to worry about extricating her from his place when he leaves he has terminated the entire relationship. It works most of the time.